There’s a one-act play out there that should be mandatory in all marital counseling, pre-marital counseling, and dare we say Sales Training. “Defending the Caveman” takes a hilarious peek at the fundamental differences between men and women, and how, going back to the days of cavemen, the same truths were born.  We’ve seen it a few times (our last was with @raymondmcanally as Caveman) and its just as funny -and just as true- each time.  For example, Caveman truth: Men take pride in being the “hunters” while women take pride in being “the gatherers.”  This got us thinking.  We, as women, are GREAT not just at gathering shoes and purses at Nordstom’s half yearly sale, but we are really great at gathering information, which is code word for listening, paying attention, empathizing and planning how to help…. all at the same time.  Makes for a great entrepreneur, dontcha’ think!

Lets face it.  Doing business, and certainly succeeding in business, as a woman is often a very different experience than as a man. Dare we say its all about perception?  Dare we say the woman who worked her way to the CEO position did so through tireless hours of learning, perseverance, and straight up ass-busting (not ass-kissing)?  She did not sleep her way there, or bat her eyelashes to get there.  Her confidence is not arrogance or snobbiness, her work ethic is not child-neglect, her perseverance is not stubbornness, and her smile is not fake.  She is the master of organizing and time management, and the genius of relationship building.  She can bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan.  She is the Waooh-man.  And no doubt, She is a Rock Star.

So we asked a few successful women we know one question:
” Of all your “rock star” qualities, which is the one quality that best serves you in building your World Tour of Success as a woman?”

Here’s what a few of the very cool ladies said… Read the rest of this entry »

As the old saying goes, money can’t buy happiness, we disagree.  We say it can.

“Now that I no longer have to worry about having a roof over my head or where my next meal will come from, I am happy.  Money now pays my bills, but it also pays for my housekeeper.  The fact that I do not have to do laundry, I promise, makes me crazy-happy!” -Aly

But money does not buy joy.  When we truly seek and find joy, regardless of our circumstances, happiness will follow.  Remember this:  Happiness can always exist without joy, but joy will never exist without happiness.  Here’s how we know:

Suffice to say, there was a period in our lives encompassed by circumstances seemingly straight out of a bad Hollywood script.  A really bad one.  It was the script that intertwines a pile of sh-doo-doo, and then adds a little more on top of that.  Yeah, that one.  Skip to scene four and open with single mom, six kids (we were in junior high), food stamps, and nearly homeless.  We said nearly.  And by “nearly,” we mean by a thread.

So, yes, we were in a dumpy house.  But the car was even dumpier.  Is that a word?  Having experienced that tin can on wheels, we say it is a superlative, noun, and a verb.  Dumpier must be a word.  This car was a chocolate brown station wagon that we affectionately called, “The Dragon Wagon.”  (says big, echoing voice) Read the rest of this entry »

It’s always cool to go away from an interview knowing, “That was a rock star woman in business.”  And that’s exactly what we said to each other when we wrapped our interview with Millionaire Moms Media founder, Edie McCrae last week.  Pronounce it Eee-die, not Eddy.  She’s not a dude.  She’s one cool mom who knows not only how to make it happen in the office, she does it while keeping her husband and two kids a priority, which is critical in our Rock Star U curriculum.

Edie’s in the business of helping other women succeed in large part through social media.  What’s the inspiration for Edie’s song?  She told us, “I have this overwhelming desire to help people to help themselves.” And she didn’t always know that desire was going to form up in the fashion of social media either.  Her first (of three) careers helping people was as a nurse.  For ten years in her nursing career, she did just that- helped people.

But after the birth of a premature baby, nursing rightfully took a back seat to the care of her newborn.  Fast forward a bit, and soon Edie was juggling healthy little ones with a new, but highly successful career in direct sales.  Learned a lot, made a lot (of dinero), but missed the fam a lot.  Sound familiar?  Read the rest of this entry »

Like most of us on the planet, the sudden and untimely death of Michael Jackson has both of us trying to grasp the truth in it, all while recalling the joyful memory of the first concert we ever went to. Yes, The Victory Tour in the Astrodome. We wore a sparkly glove, we are pretty sure. The media tributes and montages today are sprinkled with a little of what we don’t want to remember about him, too. So, it brings us abruptly to a topic that we teach and speak about often… so listen up, or we may be using you as an example one day. We hope not, but we’re just sayin’ in our Rock Star U terms, there are awards, and then there’s the Hall of Fame:

Admit it. You’ve watched the Grammy Awards on TV and wondered in some blurry-dreamy-state what it would be like to win such a public award. What would it be like for someone to give you a standing ovation, a trophy, in front of a worldwide audience based on the fact that you did a great job at “what you do?” It’s quite a concept. Can you imagine the pomp and circumstance that would be around the Stay-at-Home-Mom Awards? What about the Military Family Awards, or the Single Mom or Single Dad Awards show? Yayehuh!! What about the Janitor Awards, or the Teacher Awards, or the School Bus Driver Awards?

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A post by Aly: Andrea’s story

I wanted to share Andrea’s story with you, and trust me, everyone needs to know the light named Andrea.  Here’s why…

As a rock star, it is the standard interview question.  “What was the inspiration for this song?”  In our case, it translates to, “Who is the inspiration in your life?”   For every single a rock star drops, there stands a chance for it to flop or flourish.  In order to increase the chances of success, the people that shape each song in our life had better be some amazing people.  In my life, they are.

I use the words “people” and “they” on purpose.  That is because there are so many people that shape every song in my life.  In almost every phase, or song, my rock star twin sister, Andrea, has been one of those people.  Andrea is a rock star to a lot of people.  She likely has more people in her fan club than anyone I know.  They have been lining up to meet her since she was born.

Andrea’s own life started with real adversity.  As I shared with you earlier, by the time she was only a day old, she had already had her last rights read to her by the priest.  It just was not realistic to expect a two-pound preemie to live.  I’d never recommend arguing with a priest, but it turned out to be a good idea in that moment. 

But at 24 hours old, Andrea’s obstacles had only just begun to mount.  A nurse came in to give us a bath. During that bath, Andrea turned blue because her lungs were still incapable of functioning correctly outside the incubator.  Since she could not breath, her tiny body was placed back into the incubator and the nurse turned her oxygen on the highest setting.  With no one noticing her chart or oxygen settings that were much too high, 18 days later, Andrea was totally blind in her right eye and was left with only extremely limited vision in her left eye. Read the rest of this entry »